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Cups of soup for the Heart

More cups are simmering . . . And Dr. Neff likes to chop a lot of ingredients into any soup.  So expect hardy cups - each brimming with several of the following topics:   
                                                                                                                                      
Just break up?  Not sure it's over?  Dos and Don'ts.

Why we fall when we do.

Taking charge of your heart:  How to fall when you want to.

Intimate Communication:  Getting thru without getting hurt.

Why he doesn't want to talk (You'll be surprised).  And how to get him to talk anyway.

She's right.  You do need to talk.

Why you feel like you're dying without him (her).                                                               
                                             
               
Stages of loss work:  Including:

    Getting through the denial /anxiety stage. (As soon as possible)

    Getting through the anger stage. (Where many get stuck)

    Getting through the sadness/despair stage. ( As soon as possible)

    Constructive lost love poems: A powerful road to recovery.

    Destructive lost love poems: A road to avoid.

Don't want the divorce?  Ask for help.                                                                            

Working with the ex for the kids' sake: Dos and Don'ts.

The Divorce: Why the best parent is both parents.

The Divorce: Why you don't want to fight it out in court. 

The Divorce: Alternatives to fighting it out in court.

There are attorneys and there are attorneys.  How to choose - and how to deal with them.

Not getting to see your kids?  Don't give up!  The courts can help.

Your child takes sides - and turns against you after the divorce. What to do!

How to get the one you love - and long for - to fall FOR YOU.                                       

Now, how does he (she) love?  Is that the kind of love you want?

How well do you love?  (Giving what?  Needing what?)

How you can tell if love is a good bet this time.

Why you go for the jerks.  (Well, you asked!)

How to break the jerk habit:  Alternative routes to reverie.

The story of Catullus, Rome's greatest Poet, and what we can learn from it.

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